How do you think positive?

Once again my family dissolves into a fight on Christmas eve. And this is why i hate the holidays... Actually just life in general. I can never get any fucking peace! - It's all better now. But i stand by what i said. I want peace! For one day, not one hour! Anyways... I think the way i deal with things is by locking them up and trying to forget it was ever a problem. It's either that or i sleep. A LOT. Both are pretty unhealthy i suppose - but give me another coping method and I'll be all ears.