The blame game

He feels like I'm blaming him for our trouble, i feel like he is blaming me. I have realised that whenever it comes into a confrontation i just let him have his say without really trying to get my point across. We both have battles to fight, like i said before. And they are so similar. I wish we could fight them together and lean on each other, but i don't think that will really work. Not with the way things are at the moment. It now occurs to me that i am still spending too much time over thinking and over analyzing all of this. I need to get on with my life.